It’s been quite some time I could actually sit down and pen down my thoughts. Or rather must say, did not find something to write about. But just thought there is so much happening around us every day, every moment with each one of us. And here I go with the same thought.
We come across so many people in life, while traveling, at work, at various occasions and various associations other than work in our daily life. Few come in our life just for say a minute or 10 minutes either while traveling or you bump into the person at a place just where you are. Then there are few who come in your life to make a difference and you feel like staying with that person for some more long time and the communication begins and stays for as long as you both decide to keep it on. Few get attached to each other and few detached due to various consequences. But at the end every person we meet leaves an imprint on your mind; a very good, a good and a bad one. It depends on each one of us whom to remember and whom to forget. But one should surely remember and be thankful to each one of them who meet in life and not think of what went wrong and bad. Instead, remember the best time you had with that person and thank god for those good times and that person to enter in your life. Why is it that sometimes you like a person in no time and you cling on to that person for either a short or a long time? But when you meet someone and start liking each other it’s not about just you, but it’s about you two people who meet. It’s just not about your thoughts and feelings but it’s also up to the other person. You like someone but not necessary that other person would like you too or rather should say would not feel on the same levels as you do. So do not expect anything from anyone you meet or you already have in your life. You should speak out truly and frankly to the person you meet how you feel about the person or can show it in ways by helping that person when needed. But do not expect anything in return. When you like someone, you accept that person in your life the way that person is and let that person the way it wants to be, because you are no one to change that person. If you think you need to change someone then that’s just you, change your own Self!
You like someone but that one does not think equally as you do, then respect that person and let them be the way they want to be. Thank god for making you come across this soul and bless it with pure source of energy. It’s about understanding our self, trusting our self, blessing our self and thanking god for all that happens in life. “Everything happens for the good” should be remembered and lived with. Because everything that happens in our life has a reason to happen and every decision of ours is responsible for something to happen. If things don’t happen the way you want then somewhere you are going wrong in your doing and your thoughts are making you feel that you wrong. Think well and make the best out of your decision till something good (the way you want) comes in life.
When there is too much of confusion about any particular thing in life you need to just relax and not think too much about it. Or you can decide it in this way; Confusion about one place/person/thing – think what made you fall for place/person/thing – think if the time that went by made you happy sometime back and if you can live it in the same way you did some time back. Don’t take life and relationships so seriously that you start suffocating in it and repent for getting into one.
Here I don’t mean to be happy go lucky and careless about life and relationships but just that give it a space to breathe by itself the way you want some fresh air to breathe for survival. Things which are meant for you and are destined will happen and no one can stop it from coming to you, so just take a deep breath, relax and think about all the good things that you possess and also the bad ones since that makes life fun to live with, and accept the way you are and the way others are. Just stop cribbing, bitching, mocking at people, and sharing secrets about others who shared with you trusting you blindly, laugh and make people laugh, respect every person as a pure soul, love and spread that pure love to people in this world and it will come back to you unexpectedly and in tonnes. Life is worth living so live and let live. You get it only once and you come across every new person only once, so enjoy every meeting and welcome that person with love and blessing.
Last but not the least;
"You will miss water,
when rivers will dry..
You will miss a friend,
when they say Good Bye!!!"
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