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The Year is Gone....

2010....
The year is gone..... 365 days passed away.....
Blink your eyes and the moment is gone.....Same way the year has passed away....
From the time we born, years have passed away.....Time has flown, moments have gone, memories left back.....
So many things changed in life in till now, so many ups and downs in life.....Good and bad memories, some to be cherished forever, some better not to be even thought about....
Achievements, disappointments, fights, debates, acceptance, rejection, patch ups, break ups, fun, masti, sadness, frustrations, tiredness, sickness, healthy moments etc....All of such moments or some out of them surely went in our life in the year gone back....

How many of us remember each day passed away in 2010 right from Jan 01st to Dec 31st today??? How many of us remember the people we came across in these days????
How many of us remember how much time we spent with our family and friends and had lovely times???? How many of us remember the seasons changed in this year, as in how long did Summers last, how long did the rains last and when was the last rainy day when we actually enjoyed that one day completely???


There are 365 days but there are hardly days we remember which are actually the days we lived Life in this year..... Am thankful to God for giving me this life as a human....


I have had the best times in this year, traveling to Mangalore for the first time with my mom and saw that happiness and contentment in her eyes having seen the lovely places there....
Learnt a lot in my earlier job from my ex boss....
Took the decision of  changing my career with a mixed emotion and finally landed up in a good and safe place where I could learn and gain a lot of knowledge and got the confidence to do something on my own out here.....
Went through a rough patch in personal life, family life, health, etc etc....
But all this taught me so much and made me a strong person.....
While going through all this i always remembered God and trusted him coz he is the only one who knows Whats in it for me???


Its only he who has got us to this earth and has decided every moment for us....The air we breathe, every bite of food we eat, every word we speak he decides.....
Its up to us how to channelize our thoughts in the right way and in a good way to be happy always... 
Stop cribbing about things you did not get, instead be grateful for things which u already have and the developments happened in life till now....Coz everyday there is a change in us, a change in our surroundings, which changes things.....Notice them, thank God for it....
Don't create complications for your own self by dreaming high and trying to run behind your goals that you don't notice the happy things in life and you overlook them.....
One day you will surely achieve something great in Life, but think back and you will know how many small but most precious things you missed in Life.....
In search of happiness, one earns only miseries..
Stop searching and one finds happiness in the moment....
Live every moment, don't worry about the future....U don't know what the next minute has kept for you then why worry about future??? You lose so much time of the present worrying about the Future that when you actually reach the future and look back you feel Aah, all those days are gone....
We say, I wish I had this, I wish I had that, I wish...... and the list goes on....
But one day you will say How i wished I had done this earlier....
Don't worry for future,
Don't regret for your past,
Don't frown at your present...
Just live every moment, and accept life as it comes to you.....




 

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Unknown said…
Good Blog Ashwini...............& its so true

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